In the bustling city of Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate there was a pool called Bethesda. This wasn’t just any pool; it was a place of hope for many who were sick, blind, lame or paralyzed. Legend had it that periodically an angel would stir the waters, and the first person to enter afterward would be healed. It was here amidst a multitude of suffering individuals that Jesus encountered a man who had been an invalid for 38 years.

As recorded in John 5, Jesus approached this man and asked a seemingly simple question: “Do you want to be healed?” At first glance, this question might appear unnecessary. After all, why else would the man be at the pool if not to seek healing? Yet, as with many of Jesus’ interactions, there’s a profound lesson hidden within this brief exchange.

Jesus’ question carries a weight far beyond its surface meaning. It serves as a mirror reflecting our own attitudes towards healing and transformation. We can find ourselves in situations of pain or discomfort, crying out for change yet subconsciously clinging to our familiar struggles. The invalid at the pool represents not just those with physical ailments but all of us who grapple with emotional, mental or spiritual challenges.

The power of choice plays a pivotal role in our wholeness journey. Modern psychology affirms what Jesus demonstrated centuries ago — our willingness to change is a crucial factor in our transformation. Studies have shown that individuals who actively engage in their healing process, whether it’s physical therapy, counseling or spiritual growth, tend to experience more positive outcomes than those who remain passive.

But why might someone resist healing? The reasons can be complex and deeply rooted. Sometimes our afflictions, though painful, provide us with a sense of identity or purpose. They might garner sympathy from others or serve as an excuse for not pursuing our dreams. In other cases, the prospect of healing brings with it new responsibilities and expectations that we may feel unprepared to face.

Jesus’ approach teaches us that true healing is not something imposed upon us but a process we must willingly embrace. His question invites us to examine our hearts and confront our own hidden desires to remain in painful or unhealthy situations. It challenges us to take responsibility for our well-being and to actively participate in our own restoration.

This concept aligns with biblical teachings on personal responsibility and the power of choice. In Deuteronomy 30:19, Moses presents the Israelites with a clear decision: “I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live.” Similarly, Joshua challenges the people, saying, “Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve” (Joshua 24:15). These passages underscore the importance of our choices in shaping our physical, mental and spiritual well-being.

However, it’s essential to understand that choosing to be healed doesn’t mean the process will be easy or instantaneous. Real growth often requires the courage to face change, to let go of old patterns and to step into the unknown. It can involve confronting deep-seated fears, forgiving others or ourselves or making difficult lifestyle changes. Yet, as we make this choice, we open ourselves to the transformative power of divine grace.

The beauty of Jesus’ healing ministry is that it addresses the whole person — body, mind and spirit. When He asks, “Do you want to be healed?”, He’s inviting us into a journey of complete restoration. This whole-person approach to healing is supported by modern medical science, which increasingly recognizes the interconnectedness of the body, mind and spirit.

As we contemplate Jesus’ question in our own lives, it’s important to remember that we are not alone in this journey. God is with us every step of the way, guiding and strengthening us as we embrace the healing He longs to give. As the apostle Paul wrote, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). This assurance can give us the courage to say “yes” to healing, even when the path seems daunting.

Today, pause and ask yourself: Are you truly ready for the transformative power of wholeness? Are there areas in your life where you’ve been resisting change, clinging to familiar pain rather than embracing the unknown of healing? Remember, just as Jesus stood ready to heal the man at the pool of Bethesda, He stands ready to bring restoration to every aspect of your life.

The choice to be healed is yours. It may not be an easy journey, but it is one filled with hope, growth and the promise of a more abundant life (John 10:10). As you contemplate this choice, know that God’s healing power is not limited by time or circumstance. Whether you’ve struggled for 38 years or 38 days, the invitation remains open: “Do you want to be healed?” Your answer could be the first step towards a transformative journey of wholeness.